Felix the Cat (My kitty cat)

I am hurt and pissed... My dad says if we get my cat fixed and that doesn't stop her yowling and slight peeing on the carpet, then he's going to get rid of her. He can't do that! She's my cat!!! And she's only doing it because he ignores her! He doesn't even care that if he does that, it'll ruin the awesome relationship we have and reduce it to almost nothing... He should care, I'm his daughter! In short (and pardon the language), this is fucked up.... Am I in the wrong to feel this way? I mean, I shouldn't have to pick between my poor defenseless kitty and the person who wants her out...